Motto...

Motto:

well this is not bout a motto gal ( fat gal ) but about the motto of our

educational isntitutions....

one day while drivin' a sudden thought came to my mind about the motto of my

first school... after scratching my head for some time.. i remembered the

motto of all my edu-insti's. An interesting point now was that I recited each

motto at the back of my mind and was undersatnding the real deeper meaning

inside it..

I admit during my earlier learning days in insti's i used to cram these

motto's to get good scores in my General Knowledge ( GK ) exams and the same

cramming continued further in higher insit's which was just a habit following

me ...

What is also intersting is, none of my teachers ever explained me the deeper meaning of the motto of their respective instituitions..
When young, it was merely a thing to get 2 more marks in exam
and when i was big enough to understand its implications in the outer world, I never thought about them, the way I am thinking today..

Each of the motto's gave us a wonderful message of learning and winning in Life, which is the most important thing in Life..
Winning ! and winning by good means.. :)

and to make sure i d'nt forget my school/college motto's when i grow old :)
and I am penning it down for myself

Sacred Heart Boys School, Ludhiana:( Class LKG to 7th )
Learn and Enlighten

Apeejay School, Jalandhar:( Class 8th to 10th )
Soaring High is my Nature

DAV College, Chandigarh:( 11th to 12 th )
Rise, Awake and stop not till your goal is achieved...
lines by Swami Vivekanand

Beant College of Engg and Technology, Gurdaspur: ( B.Tech )
Nische kar apni jeet kar

Moments of happiness in doing small things

In our Dead busy lives, I dont know about others but at least I have forgotten to smile on small small things..
bcoz of technology

I get happy now:
When I receive a nice mail,
When my code runs efficiently,
When I am able to beat the blore traffic and get home on time.
When I am able to spend a nice time with my honey
( Order jumbled, so dont think otherwise )

Playing ludo,cards,carrom, playing every other sport( which included were
long jump,footbal,skating,badminton, judo, in my own home lawn which I had made a sports arena ) were few things which I can think of right now, which I was happy doing it and used to make me smile.

today just a thought in my mind, that we as people rushing against time... we are forgetting the joys which we receive in doing simple things ..
now i know an argument might turn up these were childish things and I am a married man now so priorities change.. but still I enjoy the rain, the drizzle and the smell of the sand when it is wet,fresh air which makes me n honey wild :) , chirping of birds, morning walk in a clean green garden. WOW these small small things would make you so happy and life so sweet n beautiful but either we are BUSY in making our lives better ( read: worse ) or we have no time to really look at it and admire it.

I hope everyone of us should make a concious effort by not running after life but staying focussed and knowing where are you heading to ?

After all life is a great gift and happens only once in a lifetime ....
lets try to live every moment in our life knowing this moment is not going to be back and enjoying sweet little things around you.. as you know 'kal ho na ho' :)

Relationship

Relationships: This time around when Chhavs was not with me and I was attending a ceremoy which had to do everything with relationships probably I had a deeper insight into relationships..
I was attending a Marriage cermony where two people were getting into a life long relationship..
the first thought which now comes to my mind is from birth til non existence to this planet.. we as mortals try to build a relationship with one anoter....

A good relationship with our parents..
A friendly relationship with our siblings..
A true relationship with our friends..
A sincere realtionship with our teachers..
A cordial realtionship with our colleagues..

The whole world is moving fast in an attempt to build a nice and sweet relationship with one another...
Its not merely not restricted to humans but spreads to countries and organisations as well..
Indo Pak relationship
US Iraq relationship

Can I leave behind the most successful biz companies..
A comfortable relationship with its customers..
No i dont want to get into the
CRM ( customer relationship managment )
SRM ( supplier relationship managment ) techie stuff..

what I am bothered is the HUman Reltionship..

the way we start a relationship with the person.. or the way we have developed the best of realtionship with a person sometime back
does that remain as simple and sweet the way we had achieved in present time ?

a simple example a couple who has been marrried for 5 years now engaged into a relationship by their own will promised to live for each other from now are now leading a normal life ( might be happy by their own scale but definitely not in mmy scale..)

why the anger on one another comes out so openly in public after a period of time ?

why the person starts taking the other person so granted that he/she forgets to think to even ask of the comfort of the partner ?

why the same person is bothered NOW only of his comforts when earlier he used to stretch far beyond his capcities to give comfort to his partner?

why now he narrates all the bad habits about his partner to anyone who he sees and tries to look for sympathy from everyone when he has the biggest support besides him/her..

No I am not talking about couple who are having strained marriages and relationships but I am talking about couples whose Love I have seen grown to the highest peak .. n would have laid down their lives for one another.. But now after a period of time.. they are living bcoz tey are commited to live with each other.. ( Thank god they hv indian values alive in them)
But why I could Not i see the same passion in them...
why now the same display of affection in public is NON existent in them ?

People normally say me its not ben an year of your marriage.. wait for an year and then you would see the changes...
but wat after an year will the love take a back seat or something else takes a priority ?

agreed there are many other things which eventually take priority and few others take a back seat.. but why public display of anger frustation restlessness impatience over the partner begins ? ?

why the same RElationship for which we have done evrything possible to build a great relationship fades away to a normal relationship ?

why the ship of relation starts sinking after a while when it promised to rise high even in stormy weather ?

~from a sailor whoz commited to sail high in his BIggest n the greatest ship ( read RELATIONship )